International Day of People with Disability

International Day of People with Disability 2018 – Empowering Inclusive Workplaces

Today, Monday 3 December 2018 we celebrate International Day of People with Disability and the theme for this year is empowering and ensuring inclusiveness and equality. This is a timely reminder as the likelihood of living with disability increases with age and we will see increasing levels of disability on the Gold Coast in the future.

Disability in the workplace is more common than people think, with 1 in 5 Queenslanders having a disability of some sort, including mental, intellectual and physical disability.

According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS), 27,500 Gold Coast residents have a profound or severe disability, needing assistance in one or more of the three core activity areas of self-care, mobility and communication. To support this need, over 44,800 residents provided unpaid assistance to a person with a disability in 2016.

The employment statistics are equally concerning, with 2.1 million Australian of work age having a disability (15-64 years old) – just over 1 million of these workers are employed and approximately 115,000 are looking for work. Graduates with a disability face a greater challenge as they take 56 per cent longer to gain fulltime employment than other graduates.

According to the National Disability Strategy, work is a key factor in an individual gaining economic security and achieving social inclusion. Employers in our community play an integral part in empowering disabled workers and can provide an inclusive workplace by being aware of the law and following some simple tips:

  • Check if your workplace complies with the Disability (Access to Premises-Buildings) Standard 2010 building code to ensure easy access to your building.
  • Employers have a legal obligation to make reasonable adjustments to enable an employee with a disability to perform their duties, including providing flexible working hours, regular breaks and modifications to workstations and work instructions.
  • Familiarise yourself with your responsibilities and obligations under the Fair Work Act to ensure employees are provided with a safe and inclusive work environment.
  • Avoid discriminating against prospective employees when advertising for a position. For example, does the position description truly reflect the essential requirements of the role, or is there some flexibility for workers with a disability?
  • An employee with a disability has the right to ask their employer for modifications to their workplace or situation. If these adjustments are considered ‘reasonable’, the employer is obligated to implement them.
  • Anti-discrimination laws apply regardless of whether or not an employee’s disability was the result of a work-related injury. Employers need to be aware of this if they receive a request for an adjustment.

For example, to provide for an employee with a disability, an employer might allow:

  • a change to duties or tasks
  • flexible working hours
  • regular breaks
  • workstation adjustments
  • modifications to work instructions or reference manuals
  • installation of ramps or other equipment.

Today, let’s celebrate the outstanding achievements of those living with a disability and focus as a community on accelerating the eradication of barriers to employment and inclusion.

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Has alcohol become a problem for you?

There will be people reading this whose response to this question is, “No – I enjoy drinking and I know it’s not a problem in my life.” To you I say, congratulations, go forth and enjoy a drink or two for me!

But there will be others reading this who have niggling doubts lurking in the back of their mind saying, “Yes, my drinking is worrying me”. And you are the people this piece really hopes to help.

It’s three years since I drank any alcohol and for a very long time before I called it quits I knew it was slipping away from me. I felt guilt, shame and absolutely crippled with fear and anxiety.

Every time I write about quitting booze I get a flurry of messages from people who are worried about their own drinking, concerned about their partner or a friend.

Honestly, you would be amazed at how common this is. So, most importantly, don’t panic:

  • You are not alone.
  • You are not the only person who feels shudders of dread/guilt.
  • The fact that you’re even putting thought into this is a good sign.
  • You are not the only person who feels that they’re hiding their drinking from those close to them.
  • You are not the worst person in the world.
  • You are not the only person who is drinking alone.
  • You are not the only person whose relationships are being affected by your drinking.
  • You don’t have to struggle alone.

Now I have a little clarity I would say that the most important factor I did not understand was why I was drinking. I had no tools to deal with stress, I was lonely, unhappy and all of this mounting pressure cooker contributed.

Time after time I would start the week with good intentions about cutting right back but there was always an excuse. And that is the truth: there will always be an excuse to drink if you don’t draw a line.

I remember looking at my diary and thinking, “Well, I can’t do it this week because I’ve got two events, dinner with a friend and a birthday, so maybe I’ll think about it next week.”

Next week turns into next month before you know it it’s Christmas and you don’t stand a chance.

If you clicked on this article and didn’t answer “Nope” straight away, you have absolutely nothing to lose by talking to someone about your drinking.

Speak to your GP who will be able to point you in the direction of experts in your local area. Or if that feels too daunting, send me a message and we’ll see if we can shine a little light and reassurance your way. Most importantly, let’s plant a seed of hope today because you don’t have to battle alone.’s website has some good material to read and it says, “Facing up to the fact that you might have a problem takes courage. Deciding to get some help is a really brave move, but it can be one of the best things you’ll ever do.”

Those are wise words. So, ask yourself the title question again and make today the day you draw a line, take a deep breath and start finding some peace of mind.


How quitting alcohol has improved my mental health

Someone asked me over the weekend why I don’t drink anymore. It feels like a different lifetime when I was a hard-partying social butterfly.

Now I can honestly say that I don’t drink anymore because every area of my life has improved without it. I’m happier, healthier and have earned my own trust back.

Finally, I quite like me.

It’s been three years since I drank any alcohol. I never imagined I’d be able to say that. I don’t drink it, eat it in food, cook with it or even eat it in chocolates. There is no alcohol in my home and there never will be.

Drinking stopped being fun for me a long time before I called last orders at the bar.

I started drinking when I was 17 and it was fun for many years. But it turned into an unhealthy coping mechanism and in the end I lost control of it.

It was destroying me. No, actually, I was knowingly destroying me and alcohol was the substance I used to enable that. Unfortunately, I didn’t have that clarity at the time. That is why I saw no future.

When I crossed that line it was incredibly hard to stop. I had known that my drinking had become a problem for a very long time but I drowned that out in denial.

Honestly, I didn’t know where to begin with changing my life. This is why I will always talk about how awful life became for me; I know others are still stuck living that nightmare and that makes me feel physically sick. The amount of empathy and compassion I have for those still struggling is immense.

Those dark times changed me as a person and I’ll never forget that.

I would wake up with tears rolling down my cheeks in the night.

I would lay on the cold tiles of my bathroom to try to calm down panic attacks.

Part of me wanted to tackle it but it had gone so far that I’d forgotten how to live without it. Getting home from work, opening the fridge and pouring a large glass of wine was as much part of my everyday as brushing my teeth.

I’d forgotten how to unwind without it. I had no tools to deal with stress without alcohol and I had no idea who I was as a person behind a hard-working, hard-drinking, hard-partying persona.

The problem was that stressful days drifted into unhappy years so I numbed my unhappiness rather than begin to unravel any of that. I lost sight of my own truth.

Even thinking about it now makes me sad for who I was then and how nearly I didn’t make it.

I was years into an incredibly demanding career that wasn’t making me happy. Unfortunately, I didn’t realise that at the time either.

It’s taken me years of sobriety and a daily focus of working on myself to begin to find some answers.

I had never addressed childhood trauma. I did not understand the contributing factors that triggered major depression and anxiety.

There are so many years of awful, heartbreaking trauma for me to unpack.

And that is why I don’t drink anymore: I’m done with making my life harder.

I want to enjoy putting myself to bed early, waking up early and feeling glad to be alive. I’ve found a new way of living and I’m so relieved those dark times are in the past.

Baylee Rescue Dog

How my rescue dog has saved me

As I walked my dog down the beach path early this morning I had a moment. I looked at the sky, the trees, two lorikeets flew past and I smiled. My life is very different now compared to the dark days that nearly ended it.

A large part of my newfound contentment in recovery is my beautiful dog, Baylee. My plan was to foster dogs who’d been abandoned, smother them in love and then wave them goodbye as they headed off to their forever home.

It didn’t quite go to plan.

I’m not sure what Baylee’s life was like before he ended up at Animal Welfare League Queensland at ten years old. When I first brought him home he was shaken, bony and too scared to make eye contact. I sat on the kitchen floor to hand feed him, told him he was beautiful and sang to him at bedtime.

Nine months later he’s rounder than he was. His eyes are brighter, his coat is healthy and our bond is strong. His tail wags whether he’s awake or asleep. He snores very loudly and it makes me smile no matter what time it is.

Every day I’m thankful for Baylee rescuing me.


Corrine and Baylee | Image supplied by Corrine Barraclough

Dogs can be brilliant for people living with depression. He gives me a reason to get up in the morning and a reason to get outside when I could otherwise choose to hide.

Days feeling paralysed with fear have fallen away. Being around dogs can calm down our breath, speech and minds. Research has shown the healing power of touch; stroking a dog can reduce stress. It can also lower blood pressure and heart rate.

Laughter and love both release the chemical serotonin, which is known as the ‘feel-good’ chemical in our brain. Now serotonin is being flooded around my body every day, those symptoms of depression have decreased.

This is all really good news for introverts!

Dogs are distracting which is good news for anyone with a mind that sometimes races.

My little dog trusts me and that gives me a giant lift. It’s been good for me to have a responsibility outside work. Depression research has shown that responsibility promotes mental health and caring for another creature builds self-esteem.

There is an unconditional love which is hard to describe until you’ve felt it.

Some of the people I interview for work have had really difficult lives. Their stories are intense and phone call interviews can be emotionally draining. Taking Baylee for a walk in the fresh air to admire the gorgeous Gold Coast scenery helps me to reset and recharge. Exercise is as good for me as it is for him.

Before you consider fostering/adopting dog, ask yourself:

  • Do you have time?
  • Do you have patience?
  • Can you commit long term?
  • What breed will suit your lifestyle? (ie. how much exercise can you commit to)
  • Have you done your research?
  • Do you have some spare money? (Not a fortune, but vet-bills aren’t zero).
  • Have you pooch-proofed your home?

If you want to know more check out Animal Welfare League Queensland.

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Psychic medium Debbie Malone: “I’m the biggest skeptic!”

In her new book Always With You (Rockpool Publishing $29.99), acclaimed psychic medium Debbie Malone shares some of the readings she’s done over the years. A powerful collection of experiences with the other side, her new book offers messages of love, loss and reconnection, and provides a fascinating insight as to what lies ahead in the world beyond. We interviewed her about her new book, and some of the stand-out stories within.

I’m the biggest skeptic ever – I didn’t want to be doing this work! I fell into it by accident, something I talk about in my first book, Clues from Beyond. That’s why when people say they don’t really believe in this, I say, ‘I get it, I understand’. I’ve always been very skeptical, but I have also always been very open-minded to the possibility that we are protected from above.

I once did a reading for a man from England. His mum had died of pancreatic cancer last year, and even though he was not much of a believer [in the work I do], he came along after a friend convinced him to. His mum was telling me all these things about peony roses, where they were in his house, that type of thing. He said, ‘How do you know my house looks like that – how do you know these details, only mum and I know that?’ He’s a believer now! It’s lovely to know that his mum is still there, and keeping an eye on him.

Why do good things happen to bad people? I question this all the time. The hardest and most heartbreaking part of the work I do is meeting with people who have experienced great tragedies. I did a reading for a beautiful woman at the beginning of the year. She’d fallen pregnant with twins, and when she was seven months pregnant, she delivered and they only lived a few hours. I could see these two beautiful little girls in spirit, and they were rubbing her belly, telling me another baby is coming soon. I said, “You’ll be pregnant by Easter.” I made her a special memorialised piece of jewelry and when she came to pick it up 4 weeks later, she told me the exciting news: she was pregnant again.

Some of the stories in the book were unfolding as I was writing the book, especially the one with my son Blake. It’s a story about his past life. It came about by accident, really; he’s always talked about the army, even from the age of 2, he would talk about seeing the men with arms and legs missing – it was quite terrifying! He’s now 24, but he’s been talking about the Army his entire life. He always wanted to be a gunner.

One day I was researching my grandfather’s war records. My grandfather is Bernhard Ernest G, and I came across a record for Walter Ernest G – he was born on my son’s birthday, exactly 100 years before. He was discharged from the Army on my birthday. I tracked him further back, and discovered he was actually born in Randwick and was interred in an unmarked grave just near my office in Sydney. My son Blake then went under hypnosis, and he discovered memories of being Walter. He actually saw himself on the battlefield, trying to find his mates during World War I. It’s incredible to make these kinds of connections with loved ones – you never know what’s going to come out!

The biggest message I want people to take away from the book is the fact that we’re never really alone. Our loved ones will always get your attention. Our guardian angels are there – I’ve had many adventures when travelling, and my angels have saved me. One time in particular, I went in a helicopter and we had to make an emergency landing, after the helicopter malfunctioned. I believe my guardian angel saved us that day. Our loved ones are always with us – their love never dies.